The Car-ma Sutra: The Ultimate Guide to In-Car Intimacy

Two-thirds of Brits admit to getting frisky in their car – and Gen Z are leading the way. Here’s how to keep it fun, safe, and comfortable.

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Remember – being caught in public could land you in hot water. Keep it discreet, safe, and private.

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Key advice before you crack on

Georgina Vass has over 15 years of academic and professional experience in sex education and mental health services, offering a sex-positive approach to individuals and couples.
Working with Cazoo, she offers advice on the best ways to prepare for, and enjoy, lovemaking in your car.

Scope out:

When planning your fun evening, bear in mind the need to find a private space. Opt for a private driveway, your own land, or your partners. Remember that if you are visible to any members of the public, this could result in a public indecency charge, so make sure you’re well and truly in private.


Consent:

All sexual activity requires consent, so be sure that you have both willingly and enthusiastically agreed on this sexual activity, and that you both feel safe and comfortable.

Vibes on, car off:

To stay safe and make sure you’re keeping legal, you must turn off the car during this activity, as well as making sure the hand brake is on. Having sex whilst driving is a no-go, and could lead to a charge of careless or dangerous driving. Park in a safe, private spot and make sure your key is out of the ignition.

Make an effort:

If this might become a regular spot for you and your partner (like it is for many), prepare your car with more than just safety and legal essentials—stock up on everything you might need, like condoms, hand sanitizer, air freshener, and a soft blanket. These will all come in handy and improve the overall experience. A good playlist is also a perk, but make sure you bring a speaker, as you won’t be able to keep the car stereo on.

Crack a window:

Unless you’re into Titanic role-play/scene setting, have the windows or sunroof slightly open for temperature control, fresh air, and to reduce steamy windows.

Mirror, mirror:

Viewing yourself and your partner in a mirror during sex can be incredibly arousing, and cars have various mirrors that can be angled to be visible from various positions. So experiment and use them!

Top positions to try

In terms of positions, there is room to explore several different options if you use the space well. Some ideas to consider include:

Love on top:

Reverse cowgirl can work well here with the seat moved all of the way back and the seat reclined. With a hand on the glove compartment for stabilisation, the partner on top may find that moving back and forth is easier than up and down. The other hand can be used for stimulating themselves or an erogenous zone of their partner; their choice. But keep in mind that the rider may easily bump their head on the roof of the car.


69:

This may be easier in the back, but it is not impossible in the front. If the front seat is extended as far back as possible and you position the partner on top to have their toes touching the roof, this activity could be an interesting alternative to the more basic car positions. If opting for the back of the car, look for an adequately deep footwell and a front seat that moves sufficiently far forward.

Lovemaking:

With the seats reclined fully back, creating a bed-like space, more positions are feasible. Missionary is a crowd pleaser due to the ease and accessibility for most body shapes. Another backseat position for the loved up is the Lotus. If the partner on the bottom is sitting on the edge of the back seat, the partner on top can sit on top of them, facing them and move relatively easily.

All fours:

With the back seats fully reclined in a bed-like space, one partner could be on all fours while the partner on top bent over them and held them close to avoid hitting the roof of the car. Their hands could be used to stabilise themselves or, more enjoyably, stimulate various parts of their body

The Best Sex-Friendly Cars

With these positions in mind, here are some key features to look out for when buying a car you hope to get intimate with, from Motoring expert at Cazoo, Charles Harvey:

Flat-folding rear seats: Look for “load flat” or “Magic Seats” which create a long, usable flat area.

Honda Jazz

Honda Jazz

The Honda Jazz is a versatile and reliable hatchback that’s perfect for families and city driving alike. It’s compact on the outside for easy parking, yet surprisingly spacious inside, with clever seating that can adapt to passengers or cargo thanks to Honda’s signature “Magic Seats.”

Inside, the Jazz offers a bright, airy cabin with practical storage solutions throughout, making it ideal for groceries, sports gear, or weekend trips.

With used prices starting from around £7,000, the Honda Jazz is a smart choice if you want a practical, efficient, and dependable car that’s easy to live with.

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Toyota Yaris

The Toyota Yaris is a compact and practical hatchback that’s perfect for city driving and small families. It combines nimble handling with a fuel-efficient engine, making it easy to navigate tight streets and keep running costs low.

Inside, the Yaris offers a surprisingly spacious cabin for its size, with clever storage solutions and comfortable seating for passengers. Its smooth ride and light steering make everyday driving a breeze, while Toyota’s reputation for reliability adds peace of mind.

With used prices starting from around £7,500, the Toyota Yaris is a smart choice if you want a dependable, economical, and easy-to-drive car that’s perfect for urban life.

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Toyota Yaris

Privacy features: Tinted rear windows or high roofline vehicles (SUVs/estates) give discretion.

Nissan Qashqai

Nissan Qashqai

The Nissan Qashqai is one of the UK’s best-selling crossovers — and for good reason. It blends the practicality of a hatchback with the elevated driving position and rugged looks of an SUV, making it ideal if you want more visibility and road presence.

Inside, there’s generous space for passengers and cargo, with a boot that can handle everything from luggage to DIY runs. It’s also known for comfort and ease of use, with light steering and a smooth ride that make everyday driving feel effortless.

With used prices starting from around £8,000, it’s a smart choice if you want SUV style without SUV running costs.

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Lexus RX

The Lexus RX is a luxury SUV that puts comfort and refinement first. It’s spacious, exceptionally quiet (especially the hybrid versions), and built with the kind of attention to detail Lexus is known for.

Despite its size, it’s easy to drive, and the hybrid system delivers impressive efficiency. Whether you're commuting, cruising, or just gliding through town, the RX feels smooth and confident.

Inside, you’ll find high-grade materials and plenty of features as standard. Used models start at around £14,000, offering serious comfort and quality for the money.

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Lexus RX

Space & comfort: Estates and mid-size SUVs offer more legroom, supportive seating, and roomy cabins for longer sessions.

Kia Sportage

Kia Sportage

The Kia Sportage is an SUV that strikes a strong balance between practicality, build quality, and value for money. It’s well-equipped even in entry-level trims, and the interior offers plenty of room for passengers and cargo alike.

It’s relaxed and easy to drive, with good visibility and a solid, planted feel on the road. The standout bonus? Kia’s 7-year warranty — many used examples still carry years of cover, even after changing hands.

Used prices start from around £9,000, and you get a lot of car and peace of mind for that.

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Volvo V60/V90

If you're looking for a sleek, premium estate with Scandinavian style, the Volvo V60 and V90 tick all the boxes. Both are calm, comfortable cruisers with minimalist interiors and plenty of space in the back.

The V60 is a more compact option, while the V90 gives you even more room and one of the largest boots in its class. Both offer a smooth, relaxed drive and a cabin that’s built to make every journey feel effortless.

Used V60s start from around £11,000, while V90s typically begin around £15,000 — a refined upgrade without stepping into SUV territory.

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Volvo V60

Ease of access: Wide-opening doors and slightly elevated ride heights make entry and exit easier.

Mercedes-Benz E-Class Estate

Mercedes-Benz E-Class Estate

The Mercedes E-Class Estate is all about effortless long-distance comfort and serious boot space. It’s built for covering miles in luxury, with a high-quality interior, smooth engines, and one of the largest load areas on the market.

It handles well for its size, with a relaxed, composed feel that makes every drive more enjoyable — whether you’re on the motorway or just navigating town.

Used prices start from around £13,000. It’s not cheap to run, but few estate cars feel this polished or capable.

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Small but perfectly formed: Compact hatchbacks are a more budget-friendly options

Ford Fiesta

The Ford Fiesta is a small hatchback with big appeal. It’s fun to drive, comfortable to sit in, and comes packed with features even in entry-level trims.

There’s a surprising amount of room inside, and the boot is more than capable for daily use. Later models also offer modern tech, slick infotainment, and economical engines that keep running costs down.

Used prices start at around £5,000, making it one of the best-value options for a compact, enjoyable drive.

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Ford Fiesta
VW Golf

VW Golf

The VW Golf is a classic for a reason. It’s stylish, well-built, and strikes a perfect balance between everyday usability and a premium feel.

It handles confidently, feels refined on the road, and comes in a wide range of versions — from efficient diesels to punchy turbo petrols and sporty GTIs. Inside, the layout is clean and high quality, with plenty of space and useful tech.

Used prices start from around £7,500, and it’s hard to go wrong with a car that does just about everything well.

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